Friday, April 30, 2004

Another hard fought battle...

But we lost the war. Final score: 8-6. Ariel's softball team played the mixed U-10/12 squad last night and again, gave a great showing fighting tooth and nail until the very last inning. At one point in the game, we were even winning 5-1 until the opposing team's star hitter came to the plate and left us with a solo home run in one inning and a grand slam home run in the next inning which she crushed to deep right field. That left us reeling on our heels at 6-5.

However, the girls never gave up and while we were down 8-5 with time running down quickly, we managed to get 3 quick outs giving us one final chance at bat to tie or win the game.

Next week we start live pitch which will surely change the whole aspect of the game.

Wednesday, April 28, 2004

So what does a hydrologist do again?



This morning I had the opportunity to go out into the field and do a site reconnaissance with my project manager. And there was much rejoicing! Huzzah!! Considering that these opportunities are few and far between, I was walking on water. And the weather - mid 70s, strong breeze, bright sunny skies. Hoo boy. It was going to be difficult to get back to work!

So we've been hired by a builder who is proposing to build two houses on the banks of the Arkansas River. However, since they will be building in the floodplain, FEMA requires that the structures being built cannot raise the water elevations during a 1% flood one iota.

That's where we come in. We take the current model that has been developed for the Arkansas River and add in the structures which could potentially block some of the flow. We run the model and it computes new water elevations based on the new data. Then we compare it to the results without the structures in place. If the blocked areas do not affect the water elevations, our client is good to go. However, if the structures end up raising water elevations, then the client will have to either forgo the project or somehow make up for the blocked area by excavating an equal amount of volume (called "cut" in engineering terms.)

According to the plans we have, one of the houses will be less than 20 feet from the river. I don't know about you, but there's NO WAY IN HELL that I would live so close to such a large river. The potential for flooding is just too great. And based on current river levels, the ground floor elevation of the house is only a mere 10 feet above the river right now. Sure the view is great, but the potential to lose everything you own is something that must be considered. I'm sure these will be the same people who then come bitching to FEMA when their house floods and they think FEMA should've done something to protect them.

I'm sorry but if you build your house on the banks of a river, you are entirely responsible if the river floods due to natural causes.

Jen's new baby...:)

Tuesday, April 27, 2004

Now THAT'S what I'm talking about!

Yay!! We won!! And not only did we win, we won XOBX HUEG!!! 14-0, baybeeeee....And they even called the game before it was officially scheduled to end because we were running behind schedule and there was no way for the other team to catch up. Ariel went 3 for 3, I believe, and scored at least one run. The girls who normally had trouble hitting the ball all were connecting and making it to first. In fact, Kayla went 3 for 3 and Alexis went 2 for 3, when in the past, both of them have struggled to even make contact. Next game is scheduled for Thursday against the mixed U-10/12 team we played first and lost 10-9.

Jen should also be getting her piano moved sometime today....I'll definitely have pics up when I can get some taken!

Monday, April 26, 2004

Church Woes

Grrrr. The latest action (or inaction as the case may be) by the bishop of our ward is almost enough to be the last straw. The first straw? During one of our moves out of the house we were staying in (whose owners went to serve a mission for the Church), we were told by the bishop in no uncertain terms that "the church is NOT a moving company." Hello?? Excuse me?? I thought that part of the church's duty was to help out fellow members. That's why we enlisted the help of friends during our last couple of moves. This is also the same church leadership that said Jen was only allowed 3 meals (provided by members) when she gave birth to Braden years ago. I don't understand this mentality where service is frowned upon. And then just recently....
More...
One of Jen's friends (who is inactive) is in the process of going through a divorce. Her soon to be ex-husband also just got fired not too long ago and is working a job making beans for pay. As it is, they have very little money and are always behind on bills. Out of kindness & generosity, Jen gave her friend some money to help her keep her utilities from being shut off. Somehow, the bishop found out that Jen did this and told her, in no uncertain terms, "to stop giving her money & stop helping her out." His reasoning? Because "we all have our own bills to pay and can't afford to be giving money out." What is up with that?? Whatever happened to Christian charity? The bishop also made a comment to Jen about how since her friend was so poor, she shouldn't have had so many kids.

Perhaps he feels like the Church shouldn't help out because her friend has been inactive. Jen explained the reasons to him of her not going to Church, mostly because she feels uncomfortable in the ward, and has been ridiculed in the past. The bishop even went as far to say that "even if she starts coming back to church now, that doesn't qualify her for assistance from the Church."

I'm sorry, but it's not like Jen's friend has been taking advantage of the church for months and months. I don't see other churches who run soup kitchens and meals on wheels deny aid to the needy simply because they don't belong to the same church. It just really chaps my hide when I hear about how family friendly the church is supposed to be and how much charity work they've done overseas and yet here they are unwilling to help a family who is clearly in need.

Another member of the ward also had the GALL to tell Jen's friend that she wouldn't be in the terrible situation that she's in had she gone to church all along. I know that's that member's own opinion and doesn't reflect the Church, but still. Grr.

I told Jen that if the bishopric is being so obstinate about helping out her friend, that she should probably take things up on the Stake level. But it sure leaves a sour taste in my mouth and another reason why I haven't been to church.

Thursday, April 22, 2004

A geek in the family

Thursday Threesome

A geek-- Hey, who handles tech support at your place? You? ...the six year old? ...or someone from outside? ...and how about in your web space? No, we're not looking for techs; we're just curious .

Yours truly. I eat it. I drink it. I sleep it. It's just better that way. Trust me. Plus I think I'd go ballistic if anyone tried to do ***anything*** to my rigs. I have a hard enough time letting my wife or kids install software. Muscles clenching....blood pressure rising...easy now, take it easy. Deep breaths.

in the-- computer? Just a curiosity for the designer types: what Operating System are you running? ...and which browser? Since sites can show up differently in different browsers it's more than a casual question.

Windows XP Pro & IE 6.0.2800.1106.xpsp2.030422-xxxx. As far as sites showing up differently, I don't care. I barely have enough motivation to write in my blog much less optimize my site for one particular browser or making sure it shows up nicely in Mozilla.

Family-- Do any family members read your place? Do they care? Do they have a clue? ...and how about your 'off line' friends? ...or do you supply a little bit of separation there?

Yeah - I believe my entire family reads my stuff at one time or another. I hope they care! A few 'off line' friends know about it - even fewer are dedicated readers. They know all my secrets anyway so there's nothing to hide. Ok, maybe not my darkest, deepest, juiciest secrets, but close...

Tuesday, April 20, 2004

Stay Tuned...

Ugh. I've been home sick for the last day and a half fighting a cold or upper respiratory infection or something. Sore throat. Slight fever. Headache. Just a general not-feeling-wellness. But seeing as how I'm feeling a bit better, going to head into work for the rest of today.

In other news...

While we were watching Extreme Makeover: Home Edition the other night, Ty had put up a sign during the rennovation process that said, "4 hours left". Braden immediately said, "four! they have four more to go!" Up to that point, I didn't realize Braden could recognize numbers so that totally shocked me. I mean, I knew he could count up to 20, but I guess I didn't know that Jen had been working on numbers with him. Definitely another Proud Daddy Moment (TM).

If all goes well, we might be the proud owners of a studio-sized piano in the next week or so. Still in the works but stay tuned.

We've also had several opportunities lately to replace our VERY used couch with another one - stay tuned for this as well.

And to top it off, The Office Season 2 gets released officially today. Best Buy is having a special where if you buy Season 1 & Season 2 together, you get $10 off the bundle.

Sunday, April 18, 2004

Close But No Cigar II

Well, I don't advocate smoking whatsoever, it sure would be nice if we received some proverbial "cigars" just once! For the last 24 hrs, we've been particpating in a whirlwind of sports activities. I am now starting to understand what the Sports Parent (TM) feels like having to shuttle kids from practice to practice, games to games. And that's only with one child competing! Ok, two if you count me. It all started with a late afternoon softball for Ariel last night.

They were playing the other team from our town, the one they scrimmaged against several weeks ago. I must say one thing - our team sure doesn't look like the one that was at the scrimmage who lost that day by ten runs easily. I thought we were the superior team, having better hitters and better players, but because we gave up a 5 run inning, we ended up fighting to an 8-8 tie. And when I said fight, I meant it. We were down 8-6 in the last inning with last up at bats. We managed to tie the game but couldn't bring in our winning run who was stranded on third base.

Ariel had a pretty good game again, never striking out and getting on base several times. However, her play at third base was a learning experience, one that showed tremendous improvement between yesterday and today.

This morning I led off the festivities by competing in our league Division C singles tournament. Out of the 20 some-odd players who competed in Divison C, only 6 of us showed up for the singles tournament, all of whom I had beaten during the regular season except one. And wouldn't you know it, he was the one I lost to in four games. Bah. Unexpectedly, he also lost to one of the other players, but that meant he & I were tied in wins-losses, and since he beat me head-to-head, that meant he was the winner overall. I didn't feel like I was playing all that well today anyway. So I probably deserved how I finished.

From the table tennis tourney, we rushed home for a quick bite to eat before we had to be at Ariel's softball game in the early afternoon. Another game where we were clearly the dominant team, but because we let one inning get away from us, we had to settle for a 7-7 tie. We actually went into the final inning with a 7-4 lead but couldn't quite play good enough defense to keep them from scoring three runs, all of which came on a home run helped by two overthrow errors. Plus it seemed like our good hitters who normally made it on base hit into an easy out down the first baseline time and time again. Ariel showed much improvement playing 3rd base today, that's for sure. And the two girls on our team who have had problems hitting the ball actually hit the ball today. Next game is scheduled for Tuesday night. And while the pitching is being done by machine right now, they start with live pitching in just a couple of weeks. Ariel and one of the other girls on the team will be meeting with a pitching coach Monday afternoon to take some lessons. Apparently this coach has coached one of the high school girls from North Little Rock to be one of the top-10 fastpitch pitchers in the nation.

After the game, we came home for some rest before having to head back to North Little Rock for the table tennis league end of season awards banquet. It was held as usual at a Thai restaurant, owned by one of the table tennis players. Lots & lots of yummy Thai buffet food. :) While I expected the 2nd place trophy from the singles tournament today, I did get an award I wasn't expecting. Apparently, I had the highest offensive point average (10.71 points per game) for the season for my division (i.e. I averaged the most number of points scored per game) and won a 1st place ribbon for that. Even better, I set the club record for highest average ever since they started keeping statistics 10 years ago. How's that for some unexpected good news?

We came home and ended up playing some more table tennis in the garage as both the kids and Jen were excited about it. With this sore throat that I have, plus all the activity everyone participated in today, we should all sleep rather soundly tonight.

Now perhaps the problem is that I keep playing for that proverbial "cigar." Perhaps that is why we keep coming close with a loss, two ties, and a 2nd place finish instead of wins all around. I think I need to find something other than a cigar to play for. Either that or take up horseshoes or hand grenades where "close" actually matters.

Thursday, April 15, 2004

Close But No Cigar

It was the bottom of the 4th inning, 2 outs, score in favor of Ariel�s softball team, the Magic, 5-4, with less than minute to play in regulation. I thought back on the game on was amazed at just how well the girls had played. Many of the girls on her team were playing in their first softball game. Ever. To top it off, they were playing against an experienced team with half the players at least two years older than themselves. This wasn�t supposed to be happening. The girls weren�t supposed to be winning the game. Heck, the girls weren�t even supposed to have kept it close. This was David versus Goliath, mom-and-pop vs. Walmart, William Hung versus Jessica Simpson. But there they were, with a one run lead and a very actual chance of winning the Game They Realistically Had No Chance Of Winning.

I looked back at the field and watched as the opposing team�s coach inserted the ball into the pitching machine and the opposing batter took a swing. The ball came sharply off her bat, hitting her foot and coming to a stop. She hopped painfully on her good foot as she cried out in pain. The coaches converged on her to make sure she was ok. Precious seconds ticked off even more. Could it be?

She shrugged off the injury and resumed her stance. Another pitch and it was fouled out of play. 2 strikes. 2 outs. The third pitch came and she swung and missed. Strike 3. 3 outs. I looked quickly to the scoreboard to see whether a celebration was in order or if we had to play another inning. The rule was: if time remains on the clock with the final out of an inning, then one last inning must be played. The clock read 00:08. 8 stinking seconds. 8 stinking seconds and the girls would�ve had the Upset of the Season.

As the girls ran in from the field, we told them we still had to play another inning and tried to get them fired up. After a couple of our girls got on base, Sarah T. uncorked with a huge blast to left field earning herself with a triple and scoring both of our girls. She was able to score before all our batters were retired making the score 9-5 in our favor with the opposing team having one last chance at bat. Would it be enough? Could we hold off what was surely a more superior team?

2 runs and 2 outs later, the opposing team had cut our lead in half, and threatening for more with a man on 1st. The batter gave up two strikes in succession. I pleaded for a break � just one swing and a miss and the game would be ours. Unfortunately, she connected for a solid hit to shortstop which Amy bobbled. Rather than risk overthrowing first and allowing more runs to score, we yelled at her to hold the ball keeping the runners in check at 1st and 2nd.

The very next batter up also got behind in the count with two strikes. Again, I pleaded for a break. �Please, please, please, just one more strike,� I urged. Swing and another hit to shortstop. Fortunately, Amy fielded the ball perfectly and threw it a little high to 2nd base where Brooke was exactly where she was supposed to be. She caught the ball before the runner made it there and I jumped up and pumped my fist in celebration. We had done it! But a look to the umpire sent my elation packing. He had called her safe, perhaps because Brooke had bobbled the ball? A huge outcry went up from the stands as parents learned of the bad call. Our coach told the parents to calm down as a few of them were being pretty vocal. There was my first exposure to the dreaded Overzealous Softball Mom.

So now the bases were loaded with two outs. Man, would we ever catch a break? And then with one swing of the bat, it was over. A ball hit to deep center scored three runners making the final score 10-9 in the opposing team�s favor. My hopes for a huge upset and a win for the girls dissipated as quickly as it built up. But while we had lost, I was so proud of the girls for playing as hard as they could. They listened. They followed instructions. They showed great sportsmanship. They could not have played a better game. Smiles were all around as the coach lauded their performance and effort. It was an extremely impressive showing, especially considering many girls had not played any sort of organized sport in the past.

Individually, Ariel ended up playing 3rd base for the whole game. She didn�t have a chance at a lot of plays, but I can�t say she made any errors either. She almost caught a runner stealing third, but the throw from the catcher was a bit short and she bobbled the ball allowing the runner to make it safely to base. She also had a chance to catch a pop-up hit short in foul territory but couldn�t quite get to it in time. Batting-wise, she never struck out, had two hits (single & double), a sacrifice RBI, and scored 2 runs herself. I was definitely a ***very proud*** daddy last night. :) Right now, they are pitching using a pitching machine, but in about 3 weeks, they will start to use actual pitchers. Our coach sees some potential in Ariel for being a pitcher so that�s something we�ll work on with her to see how she does.

If the girls continue to play as hard as they did last night, they�ll definitely be a force to be reckoned with come tournament time at the end of the season. We have another game tomorrow night, one Saturday after my singles league tournament, and then one a week from that point onward.

Wednesday, April 14, 2004

Avoiding the Question

The press conference that President Bush gave last night was probably one of the worst examples of public speaking I have ever been privy to witness. Now, I'm a pretty open-minded individual and don't have any strong political leanings one way or another, but that speech plus Q&A session was pretty horrible anyway you look at it.

Regardless of how I feel about Bush sending troops to Iraq, or whether I think of him as a good President, the talk last night was an excellent example of long-windedness, rambling, and question dodging.
More...
Damn - if I talked like that when presenting engineering results to our clients, I'd be freaking fired. In every communcations class I've taken (including Toastmasters & Dale Carnegie), we were always taught to answer the question and be as succinct as possible. That was the number 1 rule! It seemed like Bush would start to answer the question, go on some tangent, get lost in his train of thought and then tie something he obviously wanted to say (yet completely unrelated to the question) into the conclusion of his answer. Geez.

My favorite question that he DIDN'T ANSWER:
(Referring to the conflict in Iraq)
QUESTION: "Will it have been worth it, even if you lose your job because of it?"

BUSH: "I don't plan on losing my job. I plan on telling the American people that I've got a plan to win the war on terror. And I believe they'll stay with me. They understand the stakes."

Obviously, if he truly believes what he did is right, he should just say, "Yes, I stand behind my decision 100% that I'm willing to risk my job for it." But then he goes on supporting the soldiers & consoling loved ones. WTF does that have to do with the question?

Damn. Trainwreck, meet Bush. Bush, meet trainwreck. That was pretty awful.

In his defense, to all his critics I must say that HINDSIGHT IS ALWAYS 20/20. No matter what happened or what choices he made, it's so easy (after the fact) to sit back and analyze the situation a million which ways and be critical of what decisions he made. Let's say, for example, that he had good intelligence hinting at the terrorism planned on 9/11 and he launched some sort of pre-emptive strike to prevent it from happening. Which is what some people think he should have done. We'd be in a similar situation today but instead of analyzing his decision to go to war with Iraq, critics would be bashing him on whether he was justified in attacking first. People would be questioning if that made us look like an aggressor instead of acting in self-defense.

Face it - the critics who don't like President Bush, it doesn't matter to them what he does - they're going to disagree with his action no matter what it is. He does Action #1. They say he should've done Action #2. But if he actually did Action #2 instead of Action #1, they'd still be here today condemning his decision. It's so easy to sit back 4 months later and overanalyze everything and say, "yeah, this is what you should've done." Hindsight is always 20/20. Never ever forget that and consider that before you jump on the bandwagon slamming anyone.

Just Bill Me.

While the engineering profession may seem to be an honorable and prestigious career, there are times when I wonder why I even bother. Why do I put up with worrying about profitability 24/7 and stress out about billable hours every 15 minutes every single work day? Not familiar with the term "billable hours?" Allow me to educate you...
More...
Because we are essentially consultants and all the work that we do is under contract for clients, we must keep track of what project we work on and specifically what subtasks we work on in 15 minute increments throughout the day. All this is done because the time we charge to a project is then billed to the client on a monthly basis. It sounds somewhat tedious to have to keep track of all this information, but for someone like myself who only works on a couple of a projects at any given time, it's really not all that bad. It's the secretaries and CAD personnel that have it BAD - as they could work on tens of projects in any given week.

Well, what happens when you complete a task or are waiting for data before you can resume working on your project? You better be finding other billable work if you want to keep your job. There's really no "downtime" at all in my position. Ever. We're expected to be busy and STAY busy day in and day out. Which can be grating on the nerves at times.

I recall talking to an acquaintance a while back who did some sort of IT type work. He told me that while they were working on a project and was waiting for data to be processed, they killed the time by playing networked computer games. WTF is up with that?? If I'm running a computer model that takes a couple of hours to finish, I'm expected to fill up that time by working on something else that could be billable, even if it's a completely different project.

Now, I'm not really complaining about the work ethic or the fact that you should work hard to make your company profitable - I'm just mostly ranting at the fact that we don't get "downtime" in my field and that we're expected to stay busy ALL THE TIME.

A company-wide email went out recently from one of the senior staff urging employees to give up a couple of hours each weekend to try and get our billable hours up. It wasn't very well-received. Personally I think it's a 'test' to see where people stand in the company.

With little or no downtime during the week, doing work that requires intense concentration and complex analytical problem solving, and staring at numbers all day long, I find that my brain simply cannot handle that sort of work for more than 8 hours every day. By the end of the work day, my brain is pretty much mush and mind-numbing cannot even begin to describe how I feel. Now they want us to work even more hours on the weekends when I'm recharging my batteries so I can get through the week? It's true that it's possible to work more hours in a day if it's short-term, but doing it day after day for weeks on end takes a toll.

I suppose I should be glad that I'm not working for a company that keeps track of billable hours in

Tuesday, April 13, 2004

And just how old are we?

Overheardseen at Target today over lunch:

Twentysomething geeky guy to GF or sister: (pulling up copies of Maxim, Stuff, and SI Swimsuit Edition) "Got it. Got it. Got it."

[Author comment: Umm, just who are you trying to impress? I somehow doubt she was impressed and you sure as hell didn't impress me.]

Same guy to GF or sister: (picking up copy of PC Gamer) "Wow, Counterstrike: Condition Zero - I got this. Damn, if I buy this [some PS2/Xbox game], then I can't get this [the mag]. Hey - buy this for me wouldya??"

GF/sister walks away looking very annoyed & unimpressed.

[Author comment: Again - just how old are we? Any grown man that asks someone to buy something for them on the spot needs to be taken out & shot. Be a man - just buy it for yourself!]

Science: A, Math: A, Overweight: D

THIS is just wrong. Oh so wrong.

Excuse me??? Kids are now being "graded" for being overweight? What kind of moronic law is that? Does something need to be done about the increase in number of overweight kids? Probably. But is it up to schools to "grade" children on that? Now kids can come home and say, "hey mom, I got A's in math, science and social studies, but I'm failing in overweightness."

I'm sorry, but I think most parents have a PREE-TY good idea if their child is overweight. It's certainly not something that needs to be re-emphasized. Kids (hell, adults even) are pretty touchy about their weight anyway - I can see how all this pressure on not being overweight could potentially give these kids a major complex and make things even worse.

And while the schools are getting involved, I think it's ultimately up to the parents and families to do something about this problem. Somehow I doubt eating healthier school lunches and getting 15 minutes added onto recess will solve the problem if Junior goes home, plops down on the couch, powers up his Gamecube, pops open a Coke, and polishes off a bag of chips, only to have mom come home later with a Big Mac & fries and Biggie Soda.

Fundamentally it's going to involve a lifestyle change which is not easy to do with working parents, easy access to fast food, constant barrage of media, pre-packaged meals, abundance of computer/video games.

Hell, just at Ariel's softball practices, I've noticed siblings sitting around & playing Gameboy rather than running around & playing.

Monday, April 12, 2004

I don't normally buy CDs but...

Mr. John Ondrasik from Five for Fighting caught my eye on The Jim Rome show last Friday.

So I went out to Best Buy over the weekend & purchased both of his albums - america town and The Battle for Everything.

However, I must be feeling guilty for actually buying CDs that they are still sitting in their shrinkwrapped packages here next to me. What the hell is wrong with me? I justified the expenditure by convincing myself that I didn't actually have to "buy" anything since I still had a couple of giftcards leftover. So why do I still feel so guilty?

Cute Braden-ism from last week: "Mom, are we going to the Bank of Noah's Ark*?"

*We bank at the Bank of the Ozarks, but to a kid who doesn't know what the Ozarks are, I guess it sounds like the Bank of Noah's Ark. :D

Saturday, April 10, 2004

A rebirth?

What do we have here? Holy crap! Cliff decided to jump on the MT bandwagon. After much fiddling and near-frustration, it appears as if I've gotten moveable type to work.

Bear with me while I learn all about templates and editors and all the features that MT allows. In the meantime, here's a photo of some newly planted flowers:

As far as what I've been up to...

1. Ariel joined a U-10 girls fastpitch softball team & I volunteered to help out as an assistant coach. First game is on Monday! Eeks.

2. Competed in the C-division league table tennis tourney two weekends ago with Co-worker Buddy. Ended up winning our first match and I personally won all my singles matches. Highlight was beating the no. 1 guy in my division who was undefeated all season long.

3. Bought a new digital camera (Canon A60) due to an extremely hot deal a couple of weeks ago. Ended up selling my old Kodak one on Ebay for the same price!

4. Trying to keep sane at work with deadlines approaching and a majorly complex modeling project that I've been given the lead on.

Boring, boring, I know. But it's a start right?